For Part 2 of my expose on my nonexistent dream woman, let’s talk about kink and sexuality.
I have what most would consider a dirty mind, but that part of me remains largely unexpressed. My ex and I used to enjoy a bit of rape play and some light bondage, but it never went much further than that. One of our most significant incompatabilities was that she was genuinely disturbed by some heavier BDSM or other things like group or public sex, all things that I would love to try in any role at some point in my life.
However, how many women out there are actually into that? Not many, from my experience, and even fewer are open about it, which makes it even harder to track someone like that down.
Plus, I have a crazy hypersexual drive. This is a guy that can masterbate for four hours straight. (I wish I could say I could have sex for four hours straight, but I have yet to meet the woman that can/will go that long.) And I crave it every day. I would make a hobby out of sex if I could find a partner that could keep up.
So for those of you keeping score, my dream woman is kinky, hypersexual, and polyamorous. Now it’s possible that people like that exist. I’ve met a few that were unfortunately uninterested in me, but my ideal partner has more qualities than that. Tune in next time and I’ll narrow down the list of ideal mates even further. We’ll exhaust the entire species in no time.
an empty rain
September 6, 2008 at 6:01 pm
I guess you’ve been looking in the wrong places.
I would suggest that you do look into a local, respectable BDSM club. They don’t have the same anti-single male swingers’ rules. Go and get some good lessons or receive some. You’re bound (pun intended) to find others who have at least the drive for a long scene.
It’s been my experience that we women in the scene don’t even want to bother if it’s going to be less than a few hours. We also have fairly high expectations of our partner(s). We don’t want someone who is untrained or self-absorbed. And it is our hobby…
July 25, 2009 at 10:03 pm
Oh dear. Hours of this? I’d love for you to tie me up for hours. *sigh* Thank GOD you’ve changed. Oh, wait, I’ll thank GOD, you can thank Cleo.
I LOVE Y-O-U!
What does that spell?
I LOVE YOU!